Real Women's Tips for Better Sex

1. Explore the Unexplored

"There are still a lot of erogenous spots he hasn't found—behind my knees, inside my elbow, my ankles, and more." —Veronica, 41

2. Crank Up the Volume

"I love hearing him enjoying himself. It's how I know I'm doing it right. Let go and I will, too." —Crystal, 29

3. Embrace Technology

"Just because I want to use sex toys with him doesn't mean he's doing something wrong." —Erika, 28

4. Follow Through

"Sometimes when I'm almost ready to climax and I'm moaning a lot, he gets excited and takes it as a sign to change position. That kills the orgasm, and I have to start all over again." —Kim, 26

5. Watch with Her

"Certain kinds of porn really turn me on, even girl-on-girl. I want him to watch with me." —Amanda, 29

6. Mix It Up

"I really love sex, but not when it's a routine. Make it feel fresh—do it in the morning instead of before bed . . . or even better, in the middle of the day. Take a long lunch break! That's a thrill." —Anna, 20

7. Be Detail Oriented

"A random kiss on the back of my neck can turn me on more than an hour of foreplay does." —Stayce, 43

8. Start the Conversation

"I'm willing to be much more adventurous, but I can't find the words to tell him that." —Ashley, 27

9. Show Her Your Passion

"All he has to do to bring me to orgasm is look into my eyes. Emotion pushes me." —Amy, 33

10. Play Rough with Her

"I wish one day he'd come home from work, throw me on the bed (or floor, or furniture) and ravage me rough." —Michelle, 34

11. Pay Attention to Nonverbal Cues

"Certain things suddenly feel great. So when I move your hands somewhere, keep them there!" —Jasmine, 24

12. Dominate Her

"I like it when he leads. I'm in control during my day, and I want a break from that."  —Mayaan,27